America has problems, but America is NOT THE PROBLEM!~
Published on March 1, 2006 By Moderateman In Blogging
Long ago I stopped playing the if I am mad at someone, it means you as my friend/brother/sister/wife/husband MUST BE mad at them too.

What is this grade school? Obviously this is another article about little whip, I have always adored her, never cared for Simon at all,
While I will miss whip my world was whole long before I met her and will be whole long after she is gone.

As for Simon, who really cares if he is exiled? I sure do not, I have never bothered reading his stuff except for a couple times and that was out of loyalty to whip, I never commented on his blathering.

I am not here to make real world friends I have those, I am not here to please anyone except myself.

Brad can be a large pain, so what? so Can I.

Was brad wrong exiling Simon? who cares? Brads site, brads rules, you do not like it, leave, no one had nailed you to the caberfloor here.

Will I miss whip, yep, I remember once before when she split, I felt like my muse deserted me, but life went on, I even blogged about missing her, because I did, but life went on.

Sure I could have the instant satisfaction of telling admin to go fuck themselves, but there are consequences if I do, I will be gone and the world will go on.

I have been here for 16 months, the site was here, up and running before I came will be up and running after I leave.

I have never been elevated in status, so what? I have my own status it's called personal status, anything someone gives you is called vested status and can be taken as easy as given, NO ONE can Take my status because it is earned by me and kept by me.

I am old enough to understand people come, people go in my life and life goes on either way.

I refuse to play grade school games, if you think you are my cyberfriend and think I will leave here because YOU DO, get a clue, I won't, I will leave when I am damned good and ready or when brad tires of me. either way life goes on.
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on Mar 07, 2006
If I were being picked apart on here or having any number of other personal problems a person could have, I would hope that you would be one of the people who would care enough to come to my defense or offer a helping hand or whatever the situation warranted. Not because you feel you *should* or *have to* but because you want to.


For the record, I wasn't talking about "owing" anyone in the real sense, but according to my own standard of ethics. I guess I can't explain it in a way that's comprehensible, so I'll not even try.

I think the whole thing was blown out of proportion by emotion. As I said, the main reason it made it into my article was because of real life conflicts that ARE creating problems. I could have/should have omitted the single sentence I put in there relating the RL conflicts to the Simon/Sabrina thing, but I try to put something in my articles that indicates what "inspired" that particular piece.

The thing that hurt was being accused of a lack of loyalty because of what was really a misunderstanding. I am ALWAYS loyal to my friends, it's just that sometimes conflicting loyalties in situations where I see right AND wrong on both sides of the fence make things a bit difficult.

I have stronger feelings about what happened to Sabrina than I do about what happened to Simon, frankly. Simon was warned, and sanctioned for activities on JoeUser; Sabrina was sanctioned for activities that occured elsewhere, and I DON'T agree with that. I have no problem stating THAT position pretty clearly, although I am not going to blog about it because it's time to let the issue go away (for the moment, at least).
on Mar 07, 2006
#45 by foreverserenity
Tuesday, March 07, 2006


Ok MM steps back... looks real hard..... thinks... maybe... who knows, it happened with michele....


I"m honored at the thought! I believe in destiny Elie, if it's meant to be, it will and life's full of surprises!


life indeed is full of wonder and "you never know" I believe the same way if it is met to be it will happen.
on Mar 07, 2006
#46 by Gideon MacLeish
Tuesday, March 07, 2006


For the record, I wasn't talking about "owing" anyone in the real sense, but according to my own standard of ethics. I guess I can't explain it in a way that's comprehensible, so I'll not even try.


bad communication abounds! I too will miss whip, and also can empathize with you gid, I can care less about simon being banned, but what brad did to whip because of what she said on another site is just plain WRONG, BAD, and childish.
on Mar 07, 2006
what brad did to whip because of what she said on another site is just plain WRONG, BAD, and childish.


Bullshit MM! To hell if he wants to pay to have ungrateful jerks using his site to advertise their site where they are trashing him. You don't like that? Leave.

I am so sick to death of people stating how wrong and 'childish' my husband is. You don't know what the hell you're talking about! He is not childish! He is man enough to say 'you know what, I don't have to put up with shit from ungrateful people. I don't need anymore abuse in my life and I am not going to welcome it.'

Give me one good reaso why he should. Because you think it was wrong?
on Mar 07, 2006
What did Brad do to little whip? She left on her own, slamming doors and burning bridges the whole way, even insulting the people that considered her friends that remained behind.
on Mar 07, 2006
#49 by JillUser
Tuesday, March 07, 2006


"but what brad did to whip because of what she said on another site is just plain WRONG, BAD, and childish."
am so sick to death of people stating how wrong and 'childish' my husband is.



I do not by any stretch of the imagination think brad is childish jill, I do think banning whip for what she said on another site is a childish act.

I do not cast stones jill, personally I am grateful for joeuser and for brad. I have always said that "brads house brads rules"

I am sorry if you are offended jill truly I mean no harm.


elie
on Mar 07, 2006
He removed her remaining article that she left behind to point people to her new blog where she was trashing him. She asked for it and she got it. She changed her username to bye-bye and gave Brad the finger on her way out. What a surprise, he said 'no thanks'. If anyone thinks that was wrong or childish I would suggest they themselves do some growing up.
on Mar 07, 2006
What does that have to do with anything? Brad said she could be reinstated and that backups of her articles could be put back. In response, LW said what she said. Taken at her word, there's no reason for her to ever access the site.

There's a little camp of dolts who sit around and badmouth Brad and JU on other blogs, and frankly I don't think they should be allowed to waste bandwidth here and then run off and bite the hand that pays for it. If someone talks about me like a dog to other people, I generally don't invite them over to my house, nor do I let them in if they invite themselves.

Why should Brad let people in who insult him and JU? Let them sit around in their barren blogs and be bitter. Who cares.
on Mar 07, 2006
bad communication abounds! I too will miss whip, and also can empathize with you gid, I can care less about simon being banned, but what brad did to whip because of what she said on another site is just plain WRONG, BAD, and childish.


I dont recall him doing anything other than commenting. Did I miss something?
on Mar 07, 2006
Why should Brad let people in who insult him and JU? Let them sit around in their barren blogs and be bitter. Who cares.


Exactly!!!!!! Thank you Baker!
on Mar 07, 2006
Why should Brad let people in who insult him and JU? Let them sit around in their barren blogs and be bitter. Who cares.


I think between Jill and Baker, I am getting the picture.

When you burn your bridges, dont expect to drive a convoy across them! That is just plain stupid.
on Mar 07, 2006
I do not cast stones jill,


I am sorry if you are offended jill truly I mean no harm.


I appreciate the apology but can't fathom how you couldn't see what you said as casting stones. Stating that what he did was plain wrong, bad and childish sure felt like stones.

But apology accepted and appreciated. You have the right to disagree with what happened and I have the right to defend it. My right is just more...well...right

Truly, I wish people would put themselves in Brad's shoes before making that kind of judgement. I really think you would see it differently. I totally understand people liking little whip and being saddened that she is gone. She didn't get anything she didn't ask for. Brad made sure to let her know he was leaving the door open for her and she slammed it in his face.
on Mar 07, 2006
#52 by JillUser
Tuesday, March 07, 2006


He removed her remaining article that she left behind to point people to her new blog where she was trashing him.


I stand corrected, abashed and apoligetic. sorry jill and sorry brad.
on Mar 07, 2006
When you burn your bridges, dont expect to drive a convoy across them! That is just plain stupid.


You got it Dr. Guy.
on Mar 07, 2006
53 by BakerStreet
Tuesday, March 07, 2006


Why should Brad let people in who insult him and JU? Let them sit around in their barren blogs and be bitter. Who cares.


brads house, in my house you have to follow my rules and trashing me is a good way to get my version of banned, point taken.
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