America has problems, but America is NOT THE PROBLEM!~
Published on March 1, 2006 By Moderateman In Blogging
Long ago I stopped playing the if I am mad at someone, it means you as my friend/brother/sister/wife/husband MUST BE mad at them too.

What is this grade school? Obviously this is another article about little whip, I have always adored her, never cared for Simon at all,
While I will miss whip my world was whole long before I met her and will be whole long after she is gone.

As for Simon, who really cares if he is exiled? I sure do not, I have never bothered reading his stuff except for a couple times and that was out of loyalty to whip, I never commented on his blathering.

I am not here to make real world friends I have those, I am not here to please anyone except myself.

Brad can be a large pain, so what? so Can I.

Was brad wrong exiling Simon? who cares? Brads site, brads rules, you do not like it, leave, no one had nailed you to the caberfloor here.

Will I miss whip, yep, I remember once before when she split, I felt like my muse deserted me, but life went on, I even blogged about missing her, because I did, but life went on.

Sure I could have the instant satisfaction of telling admin to go fuck themselves, but there are consequences if I do, I will be gone and the world will go on.

I have been here for 16 months, the site was here, up and running before I came will be up and running after I leave.

I have never been elevated in status, so what? I have my own status it's called personal status, anything someone gives you is called vested status and can be taken as easy as given, NO ONE can Take my status because it is earned by me and kept by me.

I am old enough to understand people come, people go in my life and life goes on either way.

I refuse to play grade school games, if you think you are my cyberfriend and think I will leave here because YOU DO, get a clue, I won't, I will leave when I am damned good and ready or when brad tires of me. either way life goes on.
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on Mar 08, 2006
#75 by Dr. Guy
Wednesday, March 08, 2006


was looking at that as well, as well as the following:
Last Logged On: 3/6/2006 5:39:55 AM
I guess she is not banned.


whip will never admit that she already misses us.

If you read this whip,

xoxoxoxoxoxo
on Mar 08, 2006
that Hitler term gets thrown around much to easy, I personally abhor Hitler and think he was one of the single greatest evils on the planet, of course me being a Jew slants my thinking


No, you just have a brain ModMan. If Marcie reads this, she needs to know how insulting she must sound to anyone who did suffer through the holocaust. It is absolutely astounding, ignorant and jeuvenile to make such a comparison! Shame on you Marcie.

And if anyone wants to complain about bringing something that was said on LW's other site here, she pointed us to it from here, therefore it is fair game in my book.
on Mar 08, 2006
#14 by Deference
Wednesday, March 01, 2006


Little Whip is at the top of that list. My relationship with her involves far more than our interaction here on JU...we have had many, many conversations that JU has not been privy to. Texas Wahine

Boy, would I like to have been a fly on the wall during those conversations.


More than anything I think what was bothersome to LW (although I doubt Simon cares, lol) was the fact that people who had consistently been supporters and fans of hers quickly did an about-face and began praising Brad for his decision. - Texas Wahine

Hmm. Some roll easy.

I like some here too tex, you among them, but like I said really if I die tomorrow, will anyone give it more than a passing thought? here I mean. I have been a fan of whip, but friends nope, I have no real friends here and I have already been through the meeting online friends gig, very seldom are people the same in real life as they are online. - ModerateMan

I have no real friends here? How many 'real' friends have you met in the world? Can you count them on two hands, one, or a single upraised middle finger? Some people you'll miss, others you remember. Everyone touches to some degree. The input and interaction here, regardless of it's source, is invaluable and connections have been made. One can go further down the path of nihlistic pontification and ask "what's it all for in the end as I can't see what will matter after" but I encourage you to discard that path - like, um, immediately.


sure I am touched by some here trudy, but friends? I think not. Maybe my definition of friedns is different than yours or deferences.

There are some personas here I am drawn to, tex ,dharma, forever serenity, the 2 docs a few more, but I do not fool myself into thinkng we are friends not in my sense of the word friendship.


MM, while this comment is a little old, thought I'd bring it to your attention that I am not the one that made it! It was made by Deference, I just thanked him for it, for personal reasons at that
on Mar 08, 2006

I wrote about this here:

http://draginol.joeuser.com/index.asp?AID=106031

But frankly, I would be interested in knowing the kind of people who thought Simon's words didn't warrant banishment? To refresh he wrote:

"And yes, despite this display of childishness I am still considering blogging here should the site ever start charging. Though your service of JU had better improve a thousand-fold if you want to keep your current clientele here." and "Get the knot out of your panties, quit squalling like a scalded brat, and address the argument. Or stay away, if it freaks you out. Either way, next time you want to stamp your feet and threaten, try remembering that you don't attract customers by trying to bully them."

I'm really curious to who here is shocked that people might actually support the removal of Simon, who had a long track record of being nasty and abusive to those who weren't sychphants to him, for saying that to the owner fo the site? 

LW wasn't banned. Her husband was.  She chose to leave.

As for friends, most of my closest friends I met directly or indirectly from on-line. But I've been doing it 20 years so the odds go up.

on Mar 08, 2006
More than anything I think what was bothersome to LW (although I doubt Simon cares, lol) was the fact that people who had consistently been supporters and fans of hers quickly did an about-face and began praising Brad for his decision. -


I didn't do an 'about face'. I saw what Simon wrote; I know how rude and spiteful he was. If she wants to think that I did an 'about face' because I didn't toe the line and leave when she did, then she can fucking think that. Matter of fact, she can think what she wants, I don't really give a rat's ass anymore. Apparently our friendship was based on my doing what she wants me to do. Well, fuck that.
on Mar 08, 2006
77 by JillUser
Wednesday, March 08, 2006


No, you just have a brain ModMan


someone told me my brain is so small if you rolled it down the sharp side of a razor blade, it would look like a BB rolling down an 8 lane highway. heh
on Mar 08, 2006
79 by Draginol
Wednesday, March 08, 2006


But frankly, I would be interested in knowing the kind of people who thought Simon's words didn't warrant banishment? To refresh he wrote:


do not have a clue brad, I thought simon got what he deserved, whip made a choice, I did not and do not like her choice, purely for selfish reasons of course.
on Mar 08, 2006
78 by Trudygolightly
Wednesday, March 08, 2006


MM, while this comment is a little old, thought I'd bring it to your attention that I am not the one that made it! It was made by Deference, I just thanked him for it, for personal reasons at that


no prob trudy, I get it. thanx
on Mar 08, 2006
I'm really curious to who here is shocked that people might actually support the removal of Simon, who had a long track record of being nasty and abusive to those who weren't sychphants to him, for saying that to the owner fo the site?


While I"m all for freedom of speech, that freedom carries responsibilty, to not infringe on other's right to freedom of happiness.

I wouldn't dare go to my landlord and be that rude to him and expect my lease to be renewed, and whether the site is free or not, it's just plain wrong to insult a human like that.

I was rude to LW on one occasion and was really ashamed of myself, she didn't deserve that. The community backed her up, which I think shows that what's right will be enforced, one way or another.
I try now to give myself some "time out" if I feel stressed by another's comments, chances are it's my take on what they said and nothing more.

I'm glad that Simon is gone.

I too wonder who would be shocked over people supporting the removal of Simon.
on Mar 08, 2006
#84 by Trudygolightly
Wednesday, March 08, 2006


I'm really curious to who here is shocked that people might actually support the removal of Simon, who had a long track record of being nasty and abusive to those who weren't sychphants to him, for saying that to the owner fo the site?


While I"m all for freedom of speech, that freedom carries responsibilty,


now if only the main stream news reporting would understand that.
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