OK lets start off with men are wired differently than women are, this is neither bad nor good, it just is the truth.

Now, A woman complains about something, be it the floor that has a stain that will not come out, or  the dishes are to high for them to reach them, whatever the complaint is men HEAR, HELP ME, even if the woman does not want help, that is what men hear.. help me, fix this!, make this better!.

Now women for the most part, as least the women that are aware know this, yet they {the independant ones} complain when we drop everything to rush to their rescue!

Why? Knowing that if you women say something, your man wants to fix it, complain? why? why ?